To dream you have ANY dread incurable illness is a fear that something is permenantly wrong with you. This could be as broad ranging as feeling your carreer choice was bad, to as simple as a fear you will never get over the cold you have.
To dream of others with aids is indicative of feelings of helplessness or sympathy depending on the context of the dream.
[1]Dreams of AIDS are about sexual shame, blame, or guilt. Perhaps you are venting out feelings of helplessness, defenselessness and an inability to stand up for yourself.
See Also: Disease.
[2]A deteriorating devastation, whether physical, mental, or spiritual, and one that was acquired
[3]Symbolic of the need for compassion on outcasts and the terminally ill, Mark 1:40-42
[4]See Also: Cancer.
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